Christmas has once again come and gone. It is always a struggle in our house. What do you get a child who does not play with toys like a “normal” kid? We have discussed not getting him anything and I have thought about getting practical things like clothes. However, this year like all those past, we did our best to find toys he might like.
But why wouldn’t we? To do any less would send a message we do not want to send to him.
We are still trying to figure out what to do with his gifts. The idea of tearing paper is extremely offensive for Daniel. He will not do it, no matter how hard we try. This year he even refused to stick his hand in a stocking.
Part of this was, I believe, was due to the rough start we had Christmas morning. He had a seizure before we got up and then a second big one while Aaron was passing out presents. This, combined with the overwhelming nature of opening gifts and the absolute chaos in the house, was too much for poor Daniel.
This year was a little different than others. As the day went on he played with a few things, especially Ben’s toys. We are thrilled to see progress like this.
On a side note, Super D’s progress left me with one of the best birthday presents ever. I asked him for a hug. He looked me in the eyes, threw his arms open and gave me the biggest hug I have gotten from him in some time.
But let all who take refuge in you be glad; let them ever sing for joy. Spread your protection over them, that those who love your name may rejoice in you. – Psalm 5:11
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