Daniel started kindergarten this week. For him, it brings some much needed routine and structure. For me it brings some needed rest, but it is also bittersweet.
Kindergarten is a big milestone for Super D. Thirty percent of children diagnosed with I.S. do not live past the age of 3 and many who do develop Lennox-Gastaut Syndrome, which is a devastating, untreatable form of epilepsy. While he shows signs of LGS, many of the typical signs are not there. It is a cause for celebration.
Even though we are celebrating the milestone, there is still some sadness which comes from it. We have always taken the boys to school for the first day of grade school. This has been so important to me that when I had jury duty, I convinced a federal judge to delay court so I could take Aaron to his first day of kindergarten. This year was different. This year we walked Super D to the bus when it pulled up at the end of the drive.
So, why the change? The answer is simple, we felt it was best for him.
Life, to a large extent, revolves around Super D. My tradition of taking the kids to school on the first day needed to be put aside to make the transition easier for Daniel. In reality, it is more than that. It is a subtle reminder that there is no “normal”.
The first day was a win. Daniel did really well. He really likes his teacher and para. So do we. This is the beginning of a new chapter in the story of Super D’s life, a new and great adventure in the making.
When I said, “My foot is slipping,” your unfailing love, Lord, supported me. When anxiety was great within me, your consolation brought me joy. – Psalm 94:18-19
Life With Super D! 